What is the Narcotics Anonymous Program?
Am I an addict?
What are meetings like?
How much does NA cost?
Where can I get information about NA outside of the Tualatin Valley?
What's a "sponsor"?
I see most meetings are held in churches; is NA a religous program?
I am not an addict; can I come to a meeting anyway?
I have a problem with just one or two drugs; are there drug-specific meetings?
What about treatment centers and other recovery programs?
What is the Narcotics Anonymous Program?
N.A. is a nonprofit Fellowship or society of men and women for whom drugs had
become a major problem. We are recovering addicts who meet regularly to help
each other stay clean. This is a program of complete abstinence from all drugs.
There is only one requirement for membership, the desire to stop using. We
suggest that you keep an open mind and give yourself a break. Our program is a
set of principles written so simply that we can follow them in our daily lives. The
most important thing about them is that they work.
There are no strings attached to N.A. We are not affiliated with any
other organizations, we have no initiation fees or dues, no pledges to sign, no
promises to make to anyone. We are not connected with any political,
religious or law enforcement groups, and are under no surveillance at any
time. Anyone may join us, regardless of age, race, sexual identity, creed,
religion or lack of religion.
We are not interested in what or how much you used or who your
connections were, what you have done in the past, how much or how little
you have, but only in what you want to do about your problem and how we
can help. The newcomer is the most important person at any meeting,
because we can only keep what we have by giving it away. We have learned
from our group experience that those who keep coming to our meetings
regularly stay clean.
From "Narcotics Anonymous", pg 8
Am I an addict?
Only you can answer this question.
This may not be an easy thing to do. All through our usage, we told ourselves, “I can handle
it.” Even if this was true in the beginning, it is not so now. The drugs handled us. We lived to
use and used to live. Very simply, an addict is a person whose life is controlled by drugs.
Perhaps you admit you have a problem with drugs, but you don’t consider yourself an addict.
All of us have preconceived ideas about what an addict is. There is nothing shameful about being
an addict once you begin to take positive action. If you can identify with our problems, you may
be able to identify with our solution.
Addiction is a disease which,
without recovery, ends in jails, institutions, and death. Many of us came to Narcotics
Anonymous because drugs had stopped doing what we needed them to do. Addiction takes
our pride, self-esteem, family, loved ones, and even our desire to live. If you have not reached
this point in your addiction, you don’t have to. We have found that our own private hell was
within us. If you want help, you can find it in the Fellowship of Narcotics Anonymous.
“We were searching for an answer when we reached out and found Narcotics Anonymous.
We came to our first NA meeting in defeat and didn’t know what to expect. After sitting in a
meeting, or several meetings, we began to feel that people cared and were willing to help.
Although our minds told us that we would never make it, the people in the fellowship gave us
hope by insisting that we could recover. […] Surrounded by fellow addicts, we realized that we
were not alone anymore. Recovery is what happens in our meetings. Our lives are at stake. We
found that by putting recovery first, the program works. We faced three disturbing realizations:
1. We are powerless over addiction and our lives are unmanageable;
2. Although we are not responsible for our disease, we are responsible for our recovery;
3. We can no longer blame people, places, and things for our addiction. We must face our
problems and our feelings.
The ultimate weapon for recovery is the recovering addict.”
From IP #7, "Am I an Addict?" [Revised]
What are meetings like?
At your first meeting, you will meet people with various lengths of clean time. You may
wonder how they could remain clean for that period of time. If you keep coming to NA
meetings and stay clean, you will come to understand how it works. There is a mutual respect
and caring among clean addicts because we’ve all had to overcome the misery of addiction. We
love and support each other in our recovery. The program of NA is comprised of spiritual
principles that we have found help us to remain clean. Nothing will be demanded of you, but
you will receive many suggestions. This fellowship provides the opportunity for us to give you
what we have found: a clean way of living. We know that we have to “give it away in order to
keep it.”
If you are like many of us when we attended our first NA meeting, you may be feeling pretty
nervous and think that everyone at the meeting is focusing on you. If so, you are not the only
one. Many of us have felt the same way. It has been said, “If your stomach’s all tied up in knots,
you’re probably in the right place.” We often say that no one comes through the doors of NA by
mistake. Nonaddicted people don’t spend their time wondering if they’re addicts. They don’t
even think about it. If you’re wondering whether or not you’re an addict, you might be one. Just
allow yourself the time to listen to us share about what it has been like for us. Perhaps you will
hear something that sounds familiar to you. It doesn’t matter whether or not you have used the
same drugs others mention. It is not important which drugs you used; you’re welcome here if
you want to stop using. Most addicts experience very similar feelings, and it is in focusing on
our similarities, rather than our differences, that we are helpful to one another.
You may be feeling hopeless and afraid. You may think that this program, like other things
you have tried, will not work. Or you may think that it will work for someone else but not for
you because you feel you are different than us. Most of us felt like that when we first came to
NA. Somehow we knew that we couldn’t go on using drugs, but we didn’t know how to stop or
stay clean. We were all afraid to let go of something that had become so important to us. It is a
relief to discover that the only requirement for membership in NA is a desire to stop using.
From IP #22, "Welcome to Narcotics Anonymous"
How much does NA cost?
It costs nothing to belong to Narcotics Anonymous, only a desire to stop using drugs!
Money has always been a problem for us. We could never find enough
to support ourselves and our habits. We worked, stole, conned, begged and
sold ourselves; there was never enough money to fill the emptiness inside.
In our recovery, money is often still a problem.
We need money to run our group; there is rent to pay, supplies and literature to buy. We take a collection in our meetings to cover these expenses
and whatever is left goes to support our services and to further our primary
purpose. Unfortunately, there is little left once a group pays its way. Sometimes members who can afford it give a little extra to help. Sometimes a
committee is formed to put on an activity to raise funds. These efforts help
and without them, we could not have come this far. N.A. services remain
in need of money, and even though it is sometimes frustrating, we really
would not have it any other way; we know the price would be too high.
We all have to pull together, and in pulling together we learn that we really
are part of something greater than ourselves.
Our policy concerning money is clearly stated: We decline any outside
contributions; our Fellowship is completely self-supporting. We accept no
funding, endowments, loans, and/or gifts. Everything has its price, regardless of intent. Whether the price is money, promises, concessions, special
recognition, endorsements, or favors, it’s too high for us. Even if those who
would help us could guarantee no strings, we still would not accept their aid.
We cannot afford to let our members contribute more than their fair share. We
have found that the price paid by our groups is disunity and controversy. We
will not put our freedom on the line.
From IP #24 "Hey! What's the Basket For?"
Where can I get information about NA outside of the Tualatin Valley?
To find information about NA worldwide:
Narcotics Anonymous World Services
For information about other NA areas and services in Oregon:
Pacific Cascade Region
Portland Area
Greater Willamette Area
Central Oregon High Desert Area
Coos Bay Area
Lane County Area
Klamath Basin Area
Linn, Benton, Lincoln Area
Mid Willamette Valley Area
North Coast Area
Southern Oregon Area
Rogue Redwood Area
Umpqua Valley Area
What's a "sponsor"?
Our Basic Text tells us that “the heart of NA beats when two addicts share their
recovery,” and sponsorship is simply one addict helping another. The two-way street
of sponsorship is a loving, spiritual, and compassionate relationship that helps both
the sponsor and sponsee.
Sponsorship is a personal and private relationship that can mean different things to
different people. For the purposes of this pamphlet, an NA sponsor is a member of
Narcotics Anonymous, living our program of recovery, who is willing to build a special,
supportive, one-on-one relationship with us. Most members think of a sponsor, first
and foremost, as someone who can help us work the Twelve Steps of NA, and
sometimes the Twelve Traditions and Twelve Concepts. A sponsor is not necessarily a
friend, but may be someone in whom we confide. We can share things with our
sponsor that we might not be comfortable sharing in a meeting.
Sponsorship works for the same reason that NA works—because recovering
members share common bonds of addiction and recovery and, in many cases, can
empathize with each other. A sponsor’s role is not that of a legal advisor, a banker, a
parent, a marriage counselor, or a social worker. Nor is a sponsor a therapist offering
some sort of professional advice. A sponsor is simply another addict in recovery who
is willing to share his or her journey through the Twelve Steps.
To get a sponsor, all we need to do is ask. While this is simple, it may not be easy.
Many of us are afraid to ask someone to be our sponsor. In active addiction, we may
have learned not to trust anyone, and the idea of asking someone to listen to us and
help us may feel alien and frightening. Nonetheless, most of our members describe
sponsorship as a crucial part of their recovery. Sometimes we finally gather our
courage, only to have someone say no. If that happens, we need to be persistent,
have faith, and try not to take his or her decision personally. The reasons people may
decline probably have nothing to do with us: they may have busy lives or many
sponsees, or they may be going through difficult times. We need to reaffirm our faith
and ask someone else.
You may have questions about sponsorship that this IP did not answer for
you. While there may not be “right” or “wrong” answers to your questions—the
experience of our fellowship varies from community to community and
member to member—we do have a book on sponsorship that addresses many
issues related to sponsorship in greater depth.
From IP #11 "Sponsorship" [Revised]
I see most meetings are held in churches; is NA a religous program?
The Narcotics Anonymous Program is spiritual. We strongly suggest
that members make an attempt to find a Higher Power of their understanding. Some of us have profound spiritual experiences, dramatic and inspirational in nature. For others, the awakening is more subtle. We recover in
an atmosphere of acceptance and respect for one another’s beliefs. We try
to avoid the self-deception of arrogance and self-righteousness. As we develop faith in our daily lives, we find that our Higher Power supplies us
with the strength and guidance that we need.
Each of us is free to work out our own concept of a Higher Power. Many
of us were suspicious and skeptical because of disappointments that we
have had with religion. As new members, the talk of God we heard in meetings repelled us. Until we sought our own answers in this area, we were
trapped in the ideas gathered from our past. Agnostics and atheists sometimes start by just talking to “whatever’s there.” There is a spirit or an energy that can be felt in the meetings. This is sometimes the newcomer’s
first concept of a Higher Power. Ideas from the past are often incomplete
and unsatisfactory. Everything we know is subject to revision, especially
what we know about the truth. We re-evaluate our old ideas, so we can become acquainted with the new ideas that lead to a new way of life. We recognize that we are human with a physical, mental and spiritual sickness. When
we accept that our addiction caused our own hell and that there is a power
available to help us, we begin to make progress in solving our problems.
From "Narcotics Anonymous", pg 75
I am not an addict; can I come to a meeting anyway?
... There are two basic types of meetings: those open to the general public and
those closed to the public (for addicts only). Meeting formats vary widely
from group to group; some are participation meetings, some speakers, some
are question and answer, and some focus on special problems discussion.
...Closed meetings are for addicts or those who think they might have a drug
problem. Open meetings welcome anyone wishing to experience our fellowship. The atmosphere of recovery is protected by our Twelve Traditions.
We are fully self-supporting through voluntary contributions from our members. Regardless of where the meeting takes place, we remain unaffiliated.
Meetings provide a place to be with fellow addicts. All we need are two
addicts, caring and sharing, to make a meeting.
From "Narcotics Anonymous", pgs 10, 53
Most meetings in the Tualatin Valley Area are open meetings, and anyone is welcome to attend. Please check the meetings page for more detail.
I have a problem with just one or two drugs; are there drug-specific meetings?
Narcotics Anonymous offers recovery to addicts around the world. We focus on the disease of addiction rather than any particualar drug. Our message is broad enough to attract addicts from any social class or nationality. When new members come to meetings, our sole interest is in their desire for freedom from active addiction and how we can be of help.
From "It Works - How and Why", pg 144
What about treatment centers and other recovery programs?
“Narcotics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the N.A.
name ought never be drawn into public controversy.”
Our recovery speaks for itself. Our Tenth Tradition specifically helps
protect our reputation. This tradition says that N.A. has no opinion on outside issues. We don’t take sides. We don’t have any recommendations. N.A., as a Fellowship, does not participate in politics; to do so would invite controversy. It would jeopardize our Fellowship. Those who agree
with our opinions might commend us for taking a stand, but some would always disagree. With a price this high, is it any wonder we choose not to
take sides in society’s problems? For our own survival, we have no opinion on outside issues.
From "Narcotics Anonymous", pgs 59 and 60
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